Showing posts with label postpartum workout. Show all posts
Showing posts with label postpartum workout. Show all posts

Saturday, June 19, 2010

Postpartum Fitness & Food

Photo: Parents connect


Over the past six months daily fitness and I have had an interesting affair. It will be smoking hot one week maybe two, then cold as December toes the next. Due to second guessing my strategy for optimal results, I will do bursts of kickass fitness routines followed by a week of internet surfin’ couch tater. I like most humans I know have a tendency to slippy-slip back into old patters of ___________. Like clockwork I find myself clawing my way out of my rut because I desire above average results and it is important to me!


Does this sound familiar to anyone? Maybe more than you care to admit?
I would drive myself batty with the internal chatter...


Am I getting enough calories to support my INSANE fitness routine as well as breastfeeding?
Am I doing the right fitness routine for the results I want bearing in mind my body type?
How do I fit fitness whilst juggling being a full time chef, mother, personal made to myself, one who loves sleep, garden and oh yeah…read books, and fit in a solcial life of sorts?
How often should I eat? And how much? Am I eating the right foods? Is there something I am missing?
How many fitness visions boards does one need in their house to have it materialize into reality?
After several emails I have received from other mommas, here are some helpful tips I created for new mothers and even those whom are finding themselves in the fitness dumps.
(only temporarily of course!)

How important is your fitness/health?
If reaching your goal is extremely important to you, then you should do what is necessary in order to achieve it. Do what fit people do! If this means getting up an hour earlier to get your routine in before the baby wakes up, then DO IT! If it means doing the routine and forgetting about laundry for a day then do it!
I found myself accidently skipping my morning routine all together because I would get wrapped up into emails, facebook, returning phone calls, laundering diapers and so forth. Then before I knew it the day flew by, I didn’t get “my routine done” and then I would feel guilty for missing it.
You can achieve your goals!


Give yourself the “soil” to do so! Do it for you! Give yourself the gift of self love and get your booty out of bed and onto the mat!
Your diet
This truly needs to be a whole book by itself but I will try to narrow it down the some very basic essentials to get you in the right direction.
Momma…you are what you ate! Period. If you are looking to lose weight now that you are no longer pregnant it will be easy as long as you are consistent and put the right foods in! It is really that easy.
Pounds will shed fast and in a healthy way as long as you are moderately active and eating wholesome foods.
For me, my body shows me when I am not eating my best and taking care of myself. When I am eating well and moving my body regularly my attitude is bright, my completion is clear, my eyes are wide and I can wear my skinny jeans!
Want sustained energy all day and lose weight? Start with what you put in your body for fuel.


Photo: Cashew-Hummus in Melissa's Book
Here is the skinny on food :
*Throw out anything in a can or box! Seriously…are we so busy that we need to eat crap out of aluminum and card board?
* Drink water, tea and fresh juices only. Nothing pasteurized or out of a friggen bottle. Waste of money and a waste of calories! Reach for fresh juices at home or at local juice bar, herbal iced or hot teas, and good clean water! (p.s Use a re-usable water bottle! Fill it up at home from a 5 gallon! seriously!)
*Prepare your meals using whole fresh ingredients no matter if you are doing Raw foods, vegan, vegetarian and so forth. This means use only foods found in the produce aisle and in the bins (as long as they are un-processed) If you do dairy, go with a raw and local dairy and in small amounts. If you are eating meat, buy from a clean source. Fast food is dead food and low quality meats are full of chemicals and garbage! Support a local source.
*To keep your metabolism burning and to fuel breastfeeding, eat 4-6 small meals a day spaced apart. Small enough meals to not over stuff yourself, yet enough food to satiate you until your next meal or snack of the day.
*Prepare snack to have on hand ahead of time! For example: wash and pre cut celery to have with almond butter. Make your own trail mix and put it in portioned out containers to snack on in small amounts. Every 3-5 days, make your own granola (Free recipe here). This will save on time and feed you right!
Photo:cdnskenow
Achieving your Goals
True health and a fit body do not happen by mere accident. Above average results are attained through consistent life practices. Setting a goal to lose 30 postpartum pounds in one month is totally unrealistic and unhealthy for your healing body. Be patient with your gorgeous self! You just birthed a human into existence!
You may not see the visual results your desire two days into a new routine, but you will see results the more you stick with your practice. Whether it be yoga, kick boxing, dancing or other forms of ass kicking exercise the key is to do your routines often enough to give your body the chance to change and get stronger. Before you see visual results, you will feel the difference almost immediately. Set short term goals to keep yourself motivated.
Start off with setting attainable and realistic goals such as:
“I am going to do yoga at home 4 times a week for a month”.
“I am going out clubbin’ ever Saturday night for one month” =)
“I will jog Mon, Wed and Friday with baby in stroller this week”
Or “I will join the spinning class twice a week for 4 weeks.
Set realistic goals to begin with. Take into account your sleep patterns, house chores, the care for your baby, meal preparations etc. Make it simple for yourself.
Managing Your Time
If you feel that you don’t have time in your schedule for fitness, here are seven ideas on how to make it work that includes your little one(s).
1. Pop your baby in the stroller and head out for a 45 minute morning walk/jog first thing.
2. Nurse the baby, then place them in the bouncy chair in front of where you will be doing your workout DVD. They will love watching you sweat!
3. Put them in the fancy sling your sister gave you, and head out for a 2 hour hike around your neighborhood/hills if ya got em!
4. Sit them in the middle of the room with you while you do some stretches, or use their body weight for lifting exercises to tone your arms.
5. If they are older, have them join you in a game in the park like tag, upsies, red light green light or other childhood games I am sure you haven’t done since the 5th grade. Whatever it is, the game will get you to move your body and include your child.
6. If papa has the little one, hop on your bike instead of driving to your errands. Bike to the store, farmers market, post office, paying bills etc. How productive of you!
7. See if there are other moms out and about you can walk/jog with! Bring the kiddos along.



And remember….even if it is a nice walk around town, move your body every day! Even if it is a salad or a fresh fruit smoothie a day...you deserve it!
Start doing your routines and devloping your healthy habits today!


Every day gets easier! You will get the results you desire!

Saturday, January 9, 2010

SIX week postpartum update!



I can hardly believe it has been almost seven weeks since baby Zavier came into this world! WOW! It has just zipped by! Zavier has grown so much and is getting more and more expressive every day! There are days when he is showing all of this “daddy features” then the next day I will see a glimpse of me in those eyes or lips as they curl to laugh. I am in love with my son! He is just amazing!
Breastfeeding has been going very well. I have the hand of it now and feel like a super mom. The first week was a little rough and tough I must admit. My nips felt like they were going to crack and bleed. I was not getting any sleep at night and my back was in knots. A week into mother hood I was still high on “New mommie” yet felt rugged. There were moments I had to say “Are you kidding me! Am I really cut out for this!” Then…
I discovered ways of making my life so much easier and here are the updates!



BREASTFEEDING: It started with learning how to get Zavier to latch properly for comfortable and successful feeding. To my surprise it is not just a matter of giving the baby the nipple. There is a mastered technique to getting the nipple inside the mouth in a that prevents discomfort. My nipples were so red and sore that I thought I would have to stop breastfeeding because it hurt so bad. I would literally almost cry when Zavier would latch and to think it was more painful than childbirth! LOL
I perfected the technique of a proper latch as well as discovered how to breastfeed while lying down at night. YES! What a victory this was. It is most prized between the hours of say 10pm and 5am. Zavi would begin to stir in the middle of the night, I would sit upright, grab the bobby then get him all situated to nurse and try not to fall asleep and hunch over on him. Instead I now scoop him right into my chest, turn him on his side and like a ninja pop a nipple in for a comfortable feeding. He and momma can fall asleep and all is right in the world.



DIAPER LAND: This has been an adventure. I intended on being the ultimate nature lover by going all cloth diaper style and even danced in the world of Elimination Communication. “Diaper free. “ This was just plain nuts in the first week of being home because I had so much to adjust to, that waiting for Zavi to pee or poo and hold him over a bowl wasn't easy. Even though I couldn’t have been happier being a new mom, I found it boarder line irritating trying to master the EC so soon which is unrealistic. I am the kind of person that thrives on figuring things out and master them. HA! No diaper eh? Zavi laughed many times. I decided to just do what I could do with no stress and that was to use cloth diapers and sometimes the biodegradable ones at night or on car rides. I had to let go of the idea that I could or SHOULD be able catch every single poo and pee before it happened by having the bowl ready. I quit shoulding all over myslef! Our washer and dryer hasn’t seen so much action until now! Because I believe it could work with more practice, pacience and care, I will look more into EC at a later time. Phew

MY BODY: When we came home from the birthing center I was instructed by my Midwife to stay in bed naked for the first 2 weeks and bond with Zavier through breastfeeding and cuddlin'. Jeesh! twinst my arm! This sounded like a great plan. I spent many weeks lounging naked, nursing and admiring my little boy. I attempted to do some light house cleaning but what I didn’t realize how much trauma my body endured through birth and that I would need ample healing time. My hips, pelvis and everything else in between was very sore and tender. If I wasn’t careful to move faster than an old lady pace, I would begin to cramp and bleed. I realized I needed to truly take it easy and just relax. My body snapped back rather quickly. By the beginning of week two I was in my pre-pregnancy jeans yet very week muscularly. I was planning on getting into yoga right off the bat since it was mellow, but was hit with a dose of reality which takes me to our next topic:
MOMMA’S WORK OUT PLAN: Like most new mothers I had a whole workout plan and ideal on how I was going to get back into shape after giving birth. I was down to my pre-pregnancy size, however I hadn’t done an intense yoga session, ran, or anything aside from basic stretching in months! I was ready to gain back my strength, gain muscle and stamina.
After five weeks postpartum I was no longer sore and felt like I could begin to kick it up a notch. My new plan was to do yoga online every morning with YogaGlo, then three times a week I would do a ass kicking beachbody© workout called Insanity. Which turned out to be just that. Totally INSANE. I forgot to factor in breastfeeding, sleep and something called TIME! I had no realistic concept of what the demands of being a new mother would be. Dahveed would watch Zavier when I would do my yoga in the am, but then when it came time later in the day to do something more intense like the BeachBody dvds, Zavier needed me or Dhaveed was in class and unable to comfort him. Baby Zavi's needs are simple bless his heart. He wants to be held, a clean diaper and of course the boobies. I tried sitting Zavi up on the couch in front of where I could do my INSANE workout and he wasn’t into it. Maybe he really does know what is best for momma, and an insane workout isn’t it for now. This reminds me of a saying “Make plans; God Laughs”. After a few days of pouting and being resistant to what truly IS. I made a new plan. I love it and the best part is, I can change it moment by moment! In the morning I get up and do my yoga online while Dahveed has Zavi and some back up breast milk I pumped earlier. We then have breakfast together which is typically a smoothie, then a little while after that I take Zavi for a brisk walk and or other movement. It’s a nice fast passed walk and I have him in the MOBY™ which is fantasticly- hands free! Sometime I will even wear Zavier and the Moby and do a light workout video or do some fun stuff outside using him as my weight. This is much better than my INSANE plan and Zavi likes it too. With my old mindset and plan, there were several days in a row I wouldn’t even go outside even for fresh air because I wasn't "doing my planned workout"! I would then be bummed amd grouchie. With this new plan of having Zavi be apart of my fitness plan regardless if Dahveed is available, I find that going on a few walks in a day just to get out of the house ad move my body is vital too!

FOOD and DIET: My diet has been shall we say interesting the past few weeks. The equivalent of Mr. Toad’s wild ride. When I first came home from the Center I didn’t have much of an appetite. I was in LA-LA land nested in bed, so a few smoothies a day and a blended green soup was perfect and sustaining. As I healed and got out and about more I was craving all sorts of just ridiculously-crazy bizarre foods such as French toast, French frys (baked of course), Amy’s pizza and anything in the pastry case that was sweet and dirty. *blush* What on earth sparked this obnoxious-ness! I mean really!? I have to be honest…my diet was frightened there for a few weeks then I pulled my head out! I felt like complete crapola after I would indulge in this $%^&*! That's a no-brainer! So it has been easy to snap out of it. I deserve better and so does my baby. Thank goddess I am now having a deep craving for seaweeds which is a new “crave” for me. Last week I did not desire fruit for breakfast, I wanted soaked arame with minced garlic, lemon, and avocado all mashed up. I repeat FOR BREAKAST! I just went with the feeling and it tasted divine. I then soaked a big bowl of arame for future cravings and have been enjoying it every day at most meals.
Here is what I do and recommend you try:

For one serving:
About 3c salad green
1/3C of already soaked and drained arame seaweed
½ ripe avocado diced
6 cherry tomatoes halved
Toss all ingredients in bowl with my miso lemon dressing WOW! So satisfying.

In the next few weeks I will keep you posted on my routines, any new recipes and of course more baby pics to smile at.






Xx ~Melissa

Babies know best!